How to Survive and Thrive Through Divorce by Lisa Herrick, PhD Take heart: there are ways to protect yourself and any children involved, and prepare for more joyful chapters ahead In this Guide about how to survive and thrive through divorce, I … [Read More...] about Survive and Thrive Through Divorce
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Welcome
I have been in practice since 1988, working with a wide variety of clients throughout my career.
I have particular expertise in working with people who are striving to improve their personal relationships, both within their families and with romantic partners. I also work extensively with adults who are coping with anxiety, depression or grief. Additionally, I will work with children and teenagers during short-term consultations only, but no longer work with children and teenagers in any ongoing treatment.
One of my passions is working with couples who want to save, or strengthen their relationships. Clients who know that I often help people navigate divorce wonder if I value marriage. My response is that working with couples who are motivated to understand one another more deeply, and want to increase the intimacy and kindness in their relationship is one of the most rewarding parts of my worklife.
A different part of my practice is devoted to working with families struggling through separation and divorce. I often help parents talk together about how to tell their kids about their decision to separate or divorce. Please take a look at my guide to “Telling the Children About the Divorce”.
I am an experienced Collaborative Divorce Coach and Child Specialist, and have helped hundreds of families work toward successful resolution in their Collaborative cases.
I have been a leader in the Collaborative practice communities in the Greater Washington DC area for almost 20 years, serving on several Boards, and chairing two education committees to help train professionals in mediation and Collaborative divorce.
Further information about my therapy services, and my work with separating or divorcing clients, are contained within the pages of this website. Please click on any of the links in the sidebar to find out more, or click here to email me.
Togetherness After Divorce and the challenges of nesting
In this interview hosted by Miller Law Group's Founder Katherine Miller, Dr. Herrick makes a point of how the complex transition period of separation and divorce varies greatly among individuals, depending on their resilience and specific circumstances, and underscores the importance of allowing adequate time for adjustment, adaptation, and recovery. She advocates for honest and respectful communication between co-parents. Drawing from personal experience, Dr. Herrick highlights the intricate dynamics involved in shared family activities post-divorce.
Impact of Divorce on Adult Children
What I’m Thinking – My most recent blog posts

Different Parenting Styles Can Stress – or Enrich – A Child’s Life
As we all know, just because people are rearing a child together does not mean they believe in the same parenting approach, or naturally tend to make similar decisions when talking with, playing with, or disciplining children. Parenting education … [Read More...] about Different Parenting Styles Can Stress – or Enrich – A Child’s Life
Togetherness After Divorce, and the challenges of nesting
In this interview hosted by Miller Law Group's Founder Katherine Miller, Dr. Herrick makes a point of how the complex transition period of separation and divorce varies greatly among individuals, depending on their resilience and specific … [Read More...] about Togetherness After Divorce, and the challenges of nesting

Impact of Divorce on Adult Children
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Books Authored by Kate Scharff and Me
Authored by Kate Scharff, M.S.W. and me
Reviews of Mastering Crucial Moments in Separation and Divorce
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Authored by Kate Scharff, M.S.W. and me
Reviews of Navigating Emotional Currents
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Patients’ Choice Winner
Lisa R. Herrick’s Practice has been recognized as one of the top Falls Church Psychology practices.
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In December 2012, I was voted one of the best mental health professionals in the DC Metro area in the category of Couple Therapy
In July 2009, I was voted one of the best mental health professionals in the DC Metro area in the category of Separation and Divorce.